I am a woman with Aspergers. So sometimes I don’t get things. So…I’m asking.
I know that relationships are not totally perfect and the idea that someone “accepts you for who you are” means that they will actually ask you to change certain things about you or what you do and that’s okay.
So where is the line?
When does asking someone to change something or saying “this is a problem” become not really liking the person? When does it become unfair to the person and not an acceptable thing to do in a relationship?
I’d really love some specific examples you’ve either experienced or could give me. Please share this. Help me understand.
Post Update: 4/28, I recently came across this article which doesn’t exactly answer my question but has some interesting things to say.